The Lafayette Company: Symposium on Young American Men Releases Survey of Gen-Z Men

Press Release via The Lafayette Company:

WASHINGTON — During the opening of the 2026 Symposium on Young American Men, Cygnal, the 538 and New York Times top-rated political pollster in the U.S., released its nationwide survey of 800 men ages 18-30, the only of its kind in advance of the 2026 midterm elections. The poll, commissioned by The Lafayette Company, examines the unique social circumstances surrounding Gen-Z men, as well as their political and policy preferences just a few weeks before they go to the ballot box.

“Young men are divided on a lot, including their votes this fall. But nearly two-thirds of them, Republicans, Democrats and independents alike, say Washington should be doing more about the problems they face. That’s a rare point of agreement, and it’s an opening for both parties,” Alex Tarascio, principal and pollster at Cygnal, said.

“Young men don’t need another lecture about what’s wrong with them. The survey shows what’s right with the ones who are thriving: they have mentors, friendships built through shared activity and a place to be around other men,” Ellen Carmichael, founder and president of The Lafayette Company and creator of the Symposium on Young American Men said. “Young men who participate in single-sex organizations or activities, from fraternities to religious groups, are more likely to have all three. If policymakers want to help young men, they should start by listening to the leaders and organizations already doing this work and create more opportunities, not fewer, for men to interact, learn from and grow with each other.”

View the Survey Results

Quick Takeaways:

On the Midterms

  • Among young men most motivated to vote (9 or 10 on a 10-point scale), Democrats lead the generic congressional ballot by 17 points. Among the least motivated, Republicans lead by 13.

  • The gap comes from enthusiasm more than persuasion. 49% of Harris 2024 voters rate their determination to vote a 10 out of 10, compared with 36% of Trump 2024 voters. Only 13% of Harris voters fall in the low-determination group, compared with 23% of Trump voters.

  • 79% of Trump 2024 voters plan to back the Republican candidate this fall. 14% say they will vote Democratic, and 7% would vote for neither or are unsure.
  • The policies they say would make the biggest difference in their lives are lowering the cost of groceries and everyday goods (38%) and making housing cheaper (32%). Next come tax cuts at their income level (19%), better access to mental health care (18%) and more entry-level jobs that don’t require a degree (18%).

On Well-Being and Their Futures

  • 55% of young men say their life is on track, though only 14% say definitely on track. 40% say it is off track, including 17% who say definitely off track.

  • Young men are split on how the country sees them: 46% say most Americans see them as people worth investing in, and 40% say most see them as a problem to be managed. They are similarly divided on whether the rules in this country work for young men like them (47%) or against them (43%).
  • 1 in 4 young men feel little to no control over their financial future.

On Marriage & Family

  • Only 55% of men ages 18-30 want to get married. Nearly half of them don’t expect it to happen, or one in four young men overall.

  • Men who want marriage but doubt it will happen for them are more likely to say their life is off-track than men who are confident they will marry.
  • 35% of young men say having children is something they want for themselves. Another 15% say it’s something they feel obligated to do. 27% say having children is not something they plan on.

On the Opposite Sex & Relationships

  • Nearly two-thirds of men ages 18 to 30 are not in a relationship. 35% are single and interested in a relationship, while 20% are single and not interested.

  • Asked what women their age expect from young men, 58% say make good money. Fewer point to being able to protect and take care of them (44%), being fun (41%), being ambitious (39%), opening up about their feelings (33%), stepping back so women have more opportunity (27%) or splitting things fifty-fifty (22%).

On Their Priorities

  • Asked what matters most to get right in their own lives, young men most often name earning enough to cover their costs (21%), their mental health (17%), their physical health (14%) and affording a place of their own (12%). Fewer point to career-track work (9%), faith or a sense of purpose (8%), friendships and community (6%) or finding a long-term relationship (5%).

  • To 52% of Gen-Z men, it is more important for them to stand out, while 37% feel it is more important to fit in.

On Single-Sex Spaces and Community Structures

  • 21% say there is nowhere in their life where they spend time mostly around other men. Among men who are not working, that figure is nearly half.

  • 46% say they have been part of an organization that made a real difference in their life. Churches and religious groups were named most often, followed by sports teams, and jobs, apprenticeships or trade programs.

  • Fraternity men are more likely than other young men to have a mentor (71% vs. 49%) and to be on a career track (67% vs. 42%). Only 4% lack a place to spend time with other men, compared with 25% of men who were never in a fraternity.

On Support Systems

  • When something goes seriously wrong, most young men turn first to their mother (20%), a spouse or partner (15%), their father (11%) or a friend (10%). But 15% turn to no one, and 7% turn to AI, like ChatGPT. That is more than turn to a mentor or coach (3%), a religious leader (2%) or a therapist (2%).

  • 1 in 5 young men do not have anyone they could call if they needed help at 2 a.m.

  • Twice as many young men say their closest male friendships were built over time by doing things together (39%) as by talking openly about personal matters (19%). Another 29% say both equally.

  • 10% of respondents have no close male friendships at all. Only 39% of those men say their life is on track, and 35% handle serious problems alone.

  • 74% of young men talk with their male friends about faith, religion or spirituality at least rarely, if not occasionally or often.